Friday, September 29, 2023
  • Login
The Investigator News
Advertisement
  • Home
  • News
    • All
    • Science
    • World
    Deal: Over 50,000 Housing Units to be supplied as NWSC and NHCC Sign Water Partnership MOU

    From Streams to Screens: Here Unveiling the IT and Digital Transformation of Uganda`s National Water and Sewerage Corporation Corp

    Stealing A Glance at Balokole Polls: Pastor Kyazze Takes Early Lead as Bisiyaga Assumes the Center Stage at The Election of New Leadership Today

    Stealing A Glance at Balokole Polls: Pastor Kyazze Takes Early Lead as Bisiyaga Assumes the Center Stage at The Election of New Leadership Today

    Fake Blackmail: Let Ham Deliver Nakivubo Stadia instead of Labeling Bond Okello, Audrine Nsubuga Unpatriotic

    Fake Blackmail: Let Ham Deliver Nakivubo Stadia instead of Labeling Bond Okello, Audrine Nsubuga Unpatriotic

    Heroine! Presidency Minister Milly Babalanda Saves Kyabazinga from Physical Assault at the Canada Busoga Symposium

    Heroine! Presidency Minister Milly Babalanda Saves Kyabazinga from Physical Assault at the Canada Busoga Symposium

    All Royal: HRH Kamuswaga Concludes His Official Trip to California with Lots of Investors` Attraction to Kooki Kingdom

    All Royal: HRH Kamuswaga Concludes His Official Trip to California with Lots of Investors` Attraction to Kooki Kingdom

    Of Daily Monitor’s 30th Well-Earned Birth Bazaar And the Tough Scribes That Have kept M7`s Sleep in Constant Check

    Of Daily Monitor’s 30th Well-Earned Birth Bazaar And the Tough Scribes That Have kept M7`s Sleep in Constant Check

    Trending Tags

    • Trump Inauguration
    • United Stated
    • White House
    • Market Stories
    • Election Results
  • Tech
    • All
    • Apps
    • Gadget
    • Mobile
    • Startup
    Digital Technologies Could Help Uganda’s Economy Recover Faster

    Digital Technologies Could Help Uganda’s Economy Recover Faster

    Liquid Telecom to host first cloud event of its kind in Uganda

    Liquid Telecom to host first cloud event of its kind in Uganda

    TECNO Mobile Uganda Skills Graduates Through Its Graduate Trainee Program

    TECNO mobile Uganda skills graduates through its graduate trainee program

    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    Outgoing PRAU President Cynthia Mpanga (right) hands over the key to new PRAU President Sarah Kagingo as PRAU Patron Min. Frank Tumwebaze looks on

    Hon. Frank Tumwebaze graces PRAU Governing Council Handover Ceremony

    UG Pineapple at B&W

    It was Blankets and Pineapple Waragi as SA’s Distruction Boys entertain Kampala

    Trending Tags

    • Nintendo Switch
    • CES 2017
    • Playstation 4 Pro
    • Mark Zuckerberg
  • Entertainment
    • All
    • Gaming
    • Movie
    • Music
    Fare Thee Well Darling: Delicately Voiced Singer Evelyn Nakabira ‘Lagu’ Goes Home Sad and Disappointed but with a Hope-filled Smile

    Fare Thee Well Darling: Delicately Voiced Singer Evelyn Nakabira ‘Lagu’ Goes Home Sad and Disappointed but with a Hope-filled Smile

    Micho: The `Serbian Wol-Off`s Second Marriage Whose Divorce was Simply a Waste of Time, One With Magogo and Not for Football

    Micho: The `Serbian Wol-Off`s Second Marriage Whose Divorce was Simply a Waste of Time, One With Magogo and Not for Football

    Fahad Kawooya aka Uncle Bean: The Suzan Makula and Bujingo Villain who has Beaten all Odds to Miraculously get his Canada Dream Come True

    Fahad Kawooya aka Uncle Bean: The Suzan Makula and Bujingo Villain who has Beaten all Odds to Miraculously get his Canada Dream Come True

    MC Kats Set to Dent his Uganda Entertainment Profile and Enter the Gates of Hell if He Doesn’t Back Off the Consistent and Principled Alien Skin

    MC Kats Set to Dent his Uganda Entertainment Profile and Enter the Gates of Hell if He Doesn’t Back Off the Consistent and Principled Alien Skin

    Uganda and Kenya Still have to Prove their Might on the Continent as Organizers Kick Out the Afcon 2027 Bidding Neighbors Out of Maiden Clubs

    Uganda and Kenya Still have to Prove their Might on the Continent as Organizers Kick Out the Afcon 2027 Bidding Neighbors Out of Maiden Clubs

    No Thank You: Before we ‘Must’ Say Thank You, Take a Look at the Sickening Outside of the Beautiful Interior of Ham Kiggundu’s Nakivubo Stadium

    No Thank You: Before we ‘Must’ Say Thank You, Take a Look at the Sickening Outside of the Beautiful Interior of Ham Kiggundu’s Nakivubo Stadium

  • Lifestyle
    • All
    • Fashion
    • Food
    • Health
    • Travel
    Trouble as Ministry of Internal Affairs is drawn into a High-Stakes Child Custody Battle Involving a Prominent City Car Dealer being Accused of Immigration Influence

    Trouble as Ministry of Internal Affairs is drawn into a High-Stakes Child Custody Battle Involving a Prominent City Car Dealer being Accused of Immigration Influence

    Tribute to Elly Wamala: Remembering the Ever-Green Icon, the Father of Uganda’s Music Recording Industry and His Unforgettable Legacy

    Tribute to Elly Wamala: Remembering the Ever-Green Icon, the Father of Uganda’s Music Recording Industry and His Unforgettable Legacy

    Musambwa Goes Dormant: Government Soldiers Secure Buganda’s Mysterious Shrine Amidst Renovations of Mandela National Stadium”

    Musambwa Goes Dormant: Government Soldiers Secure Buganda’s Mysterious Shrine Amidst Renovations of Mandela National Stadium”

    Finding Peace and Healing: Sleeping with your biggest enemy sounds illogical! It is hard to safely put up with the real source of the trauma but…

    Finding Peace and Healing: Sleeping with your biggest enemy sounds illogical! It is hard to safely put up with the real source of the trauma but…

    Cross-Border Collaboration: Uganda’s NWSC and Malawi’s LWB Forge Strong Ties in Urban Sewerage Management

    Cross-Border Collaboration: Uganda’s NWSC and Malawi’s LWB Forge Strong Ties in Urban Sewerage Management

    ROARING MAJESTY: Taking You Around the Wilderness Trenches and Unravelling the Epic Saga of the King of The Jungle and His Fight for Survival

    ROARING MAJESTY: Taking You Around the Wilderness Trenches and Unravelling the Epic Saga of the King of The Jungle and His Fight for Survival

    Trending Tags

    • Golden Globes
    • Game of Thrones
    • MotoGP 2017
    • eSports
    • Fashion Week
  • Opinions
    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    UG Pineapple at B&W

    It was Blankets and Pineapple Waragi as SA’s Distruction Boys entertain Kampala

    To Connect the Unconnected with Innovations towards Inclusive Growth

    To Connect the Unconnected with Innovations towards Inclusive Growth

    Cindy Sanyu

    Cindy Sanyu to headline Eastern Megafest

  • Crime news
  • Politics
  • Business
  • Interviews
  • CIP Records
No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • News
    • All
    • Science
    • World
    Deal: Over 50,000 Housing Units to be supplied as NWSC and NHCC Sign Water Partnership MOU

    From Streams to Screens: Here Unveiling the IT and Digital Transformation of Uganda`s National Water and Sewerage Corporation Corp

    Stealing A Glance at Balokole Polls: Pastor Kyazze Takes Early Lead as Bisiyaga Assumes the Center Stage at The Election of New Leadership Today

    Stealing A Glance at Balokole Polls: Pastor Kyazze Takes Early Lead as Bisiyaga Assumes the Center Stage at The Election of New Leadership Today

    Fake Blackmail: Let Ham Deliver Nakivubo Stadia instead of Labeling Bond Okello, Audrine Nsubuga Unpatriotic

    Fake Blackmail: Let Ham Deliver Nakivubo Stadia instead of Labeling Bond Okello, Audrine Nsubuga Unpatriotic

    Heroine! Presidency Minister Milly Babalanda Saves Kyabazinga from Physical Assault at the Canada Busoga Symposium

    Heroine! Presidency Minister Milly Babalanda Saves Kyabazinga from Physical Assault at the Canada Busoga Symposium

    All Royal: HRH Kamuswaga Concludes His Official Trip to California with Lots of Investors` Attraction to Kooki Kingdom

    All Royal: HRH Kamuswaga Concludes His Official Trip to California with Lots of Investors` Attraction to Kooki Kingdom

    Of Daily Monitor’s 30th Well-Earned Birth Bazaar And the Tough Scribes That Have kept M7`s Sleep in Constant Check

    Of Daily Monitor’s 30th Well-Earned Birth Bazaar And the Tough Scribes That Have kept M7`s Sleep in Constant Check

    Trending Tags

    • Trump Inauguration
    • United Stated
    • White House
    • Market Stories
    • Election Results
  • Tech
    • All
    • Apps
    • Gadget
    • Mobile
    • Startup
    Digital Technologies Could Help Uganda’s Economy Recover Faster

    Digital Technologies Could Help Uganda’s Economy Recover Faster

    Liquid Telecom to host first cloud event of its kind in Uganda

    Liquid Telecom to host first cloud event of its kind in Uganda

    TECNO Mobile Uganda Skills Graduates Through Its Graduate Trainee Program

    TECNO mobile Uganda skills graduates through its graduate trainee program

    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    Outgoing PRAU President Cynthia Mpanga (right) hands over the key to new PRAU President Sarah Kagingo as PRAU Patron Min. Frank Tumwebaze looks on

    Hon. Frank Tumwebaze graces PRAU Governing Council Handover Ceremony

    UG Pineapple at B&W

    It was Blankets and Pineapple Waragi as SA’s Distruction Boys entertain Kampala

    Trending Tags

    • Nintendo Switch
    • CES 2017
    • Playstation 4 Pro
    • Mark Zuckerberg
  • Entertainment
    • All
    • Gaming
    • Movie
    • Music
    Fare Thee Well Darling: Delicately Voiced Singer Evelyn Nakabira ‘Lagu’ Goes Home Sad and Disappointed but with a Hope-filled Smile

    Fare Thee Well Darling: Delicately Voiced Singer Evelyn Nakabira ‘Lagu’ Goes Home Sad and Disappointed but with a Hope-filled Smile

    Micho: The `Serbian Wol-Off`s Second Marriage Whose Divorce was Simply a Waste of Time, One With Magogo and Not for Football

    Micho: The `Serbian Wol-Off`s Second Marriage Whose Divorce was Simply a Waste of Time, One With Magogo and Not for Football

    Fahad Kawooya aka Uncle Bean: The Suzan Makula and Bujingo Villain who has Beaten all Odds to Miraculously get his Canada Dream Come True

    Fahad Kawooya aka Uncle Bean: The Suzan Makula and Bujingo Villain who has Beaten all Odds to Miraculously get his Canada Dream Come True

    MC Kats Set to Dent his Uganda Entertainment Profile and Enter the Gates of Hell if He Doesn’t Back Off the Consistent and Principled Alien Skin

    MC Kats Set to Dent his Uganda Entertainment Profile and Enter the Gates of Hell if He Doesn’t Back Off the Consistent and Principled Alien Skin

    Uganda and Kenya Still have to Prove their Might on the Continent as Organizers Kick Out the Afcon 2027 Bidding Neighbors Out of Maiden Clubs

    Uganda and Kenya Still have to Prove their Might on the Continent as Organizers Kick Out the Afcon 2027 Bidding Neighbors Out of Maiden Clubs

    No Thank You: Before we ‘Must’ Say Thank You, Take a Look at the Sickening Outside of the Beautiful Interior of Ham Kiggundu’s Nakivubo Stadium

    No Thank You: Before we ‘Must’ Say Thank You, Take a Look at the Sickening Outside of the Beautiful Interior of Ham Kiggundu’s Nakivubo Stadium

  • Lifestyle
    • All
    • Fashion
    • Food
    • Health
    • Travel
    Trouble as Ministry of Internal Affairs is drawn into a High-Stakes Child Custody Battle Involving a Prominent City Car Dealer being Accused of Immigration Influence

    Trouble as Ministry of Internal Affairs is drawn into a High-Stakes Child Custody Battle Involving a Prominent City Car Dealer being Accused of Immigration Influence

    Tribute to Elly Wamala: Remembering the Ever-Green Icon, the Father of Uganda’s Music Recording Industry and His Unforgettable Legacy

    Tribute to Elly Wamala: Remembering the Ever-Green Icon, the Father of Uganda’s Music Recording Industry and His Unforgettable Legacy

    Musambwa Goes Dormant: Government Soldiers Secure Buganda’s Mysterious Shrine Amidst Renovations of Mandela National Stadium”

    Musambwa Goes Dormant: Government Soldiers Secure Buganda’s Mysterious Shrine Amidst Renovations of Mandela National Stadium”

    Finding Peace and Healing: Sleeping with your biggest enemy sounds illogical! It is hard to safely put up with the real source of the trauma but…

    Finding Peace and Healing: Sleeping with your biggest enemy sounds illogical! It is hard to safely put up with the real source of the trauma but…

    Cross-Border Collaboration: Uganda’s NWSC and Malawi’s LWB Forge Strong Ties in Urban Sewerage Management

    Cross-Border Collaboration: Uganda’s NWSC and Malawi’s LWB Forge Strong Ties in Urban Sewerage Management

    ROARING MAJESTY: Taking You Around the Wilderness Trenches and Unravelling the Epic Saga of the King of The Jungle and His Fight for Survival

    ROARING MAJESTY: Taking You Around the Wilderness Trenches and Unravelling the Epic Saga of the King of The Jungle and His Fight for Survival

    Trending Tags

    • Golden Globes
    • Game of Thrones
    • MotoGP 2017
    • eSports
    • Fashion Week
  • Opinions
    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    UNBS closes Sunshare factory over failure to comply with Standards

    UG Pineapple at B&W

    It was Blankets and Pineapple Waragi as SA’s Distruction Boys entertain Kampala

    To Connect the Unconnected with Innovations towards Inclusive Growth

    To Connect the Unconnected with Innovations towards Inclusive Growth

    Cindy Sanyu

    Cindy Sanyu to headline Eastern Megafest

  • Crime news
  • Politics
  • Business
  • Interviews
  • CIP Records
No Result
View All Result
The Investigator News
No Result
View All Result

We Owe You None: Face to Face with a Generation of Entitlement where Everyone Believes the World Owe them Each

Reaching Centenary Bank branch in Ntinda, I placed for my token. 278 it was. The banking hall was unusually fully packed. As I sat patiently, I noticed a swelling line at Teller 5 booth

January 21, 2023
inBusiness, Featured, Opinion
1.1k
SHARES
1.7k
VIEWS
WhatsappShare on FacebookShare on Twitter

Thursday With Joan A Bonny: For those familiar with Kisaasi Roundabout – Ntinda stretch, the Ntinda cross junction traffic lights tend to hold a little longer, drivers from Kisaasi side, hence, sometimes creating a long line of cars. Today as we slowly and patiently moved towards the junction, one driver behind felt inconvenienced and, off he elected to overtake the snaky line, another felt the same, then another and another, creating two lanes in the process and hence, blocking the oncoming traffic! It took us more time than it would, if we all patiently moved in unison.

Reaching Centenary Bank branch in Ntinda, I placed for my token. 278 it was. The banking hall was unusually fully packed. As I sat patiently, I noticed a swelling line at Teller 5 booth. It didn’t require rocket science to know why! The lady behind the mic announcing the next customer had long lost her `speed-governor` and, her tongue seems to have stopped at `Teller 5`. Here, she directed ten customers when other tellers were almost empty of work!

However, even when one would notice that where s/he had been directed is still engaged, they all stood up and each, struggled to be the first to get the service, irrespective of the systematically self-explanatory token numbers! Each of them felt entitled to the N0. One slot for service. The sense of entitlement is a personality trait that is based on the belief that someone deserves special treatment or recognition over others, for something they didn’t earn.

In other words, people with this mindset believe that the world owes them. This stance, without them ever giving anything in return. The sense of entitlement that is seen in children is not always negative. Throughout the stages of development, children depend on their caregivers. However, as they grow older and independent, wanting other people’s help, it becomes less practical and takes away from working toward self-sufficiency.

Children in the most recent generation of adults born between 1982 and 1995, were raised to believe that its their right to have everything given to them more than any other previous generation. Two separate recent incidents serve us with a difference between the said generation. One which is mad about the `its mine [or] s/he is mine` syndrome, and one where the `mine` belief did not exist at all.

The Pretty Nicole tormenters: For a sick belief, Kaftah Queen deserves the punishment herself. Yes, let her face it for leading a bunch of friends to inflict injurious beatings on 15-year-old Pretty Nicole on 8th January this year. With her accomplices still at large, she deserved facing a capital offense of aggravated torture. All this was in the name of entitlements of love and relationship for a man – her boyfriend Derick Lwanga.

All people you see half standing in and or out of the line they are meant to be, feel entitled to first and fast service (Internet Photo)

With her belief to guard `her man` against her female counterpart, she ended up turning Nicole into a punching bag before she could end herself in jail. Queen Kaftah, 18, is one of the girls who appeared in a video violently assaulting a colleague over a man. She has since been charged and remanded to Luzira government prison. Kaftah accused Nicole of betraying their friendship by loving her boyfriend. This, after she found Nicole at Lwanga`s place. Do humans really need to get to that extreme over something or someone as if you were entitled to have them?

For the burnt couple: On Saturday morning, social media was awash with photos and video of the alleged arson. A man and a woman had been burnt to death by another friend-woman. Imagine causing such a degree of pain, first to the victims before they died off finally, and the families they were coming from.

Before she even thought she had sole entitlements to her love with Kajumba, did she first think that her victims Patricia and Kajumba too, had entitlements to life before thinking of fire as a possible punishment to the alleged cheating couple! Fair people, lets continue being fair to our own selves and, two, to others. You cannot tell me you are entitled to one’s own life and commit such grave mistake. Are you out of your senses?

Well, investigations are still on but if detectives found out this woman as the orchestrator of the fire that burnt her cousin and boyfriend, only God would pass the judgement. To wrap up, you can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him. So, tip your waiter generously, smile and ask how your barista`s day was, and give up your seat to the elderly lady on the subway. The aim of treating others with respect and kindness isn’t to be better than entitled people that misses the point. Instead, it’s to make everyone`s day a little better, which, ironically, is exactly how to gain true admirers.

The main take away: We have all met people who have a sense of entitlement. Maybe it’s that person who tried to cut in front of you at the coffee shop. Perhaps it was someone who demanded to be seated before you at a busy restaurant, without reservation. Simply, people with entitlement think the rules don’t apply to them. Contentment is powerful and necessary to live life to the fullest. Identify entitled behavior in those closest to you as well as yourself. Teach and practice humility by focusing on all the gifts and blessings you have. Lead by example and treat others with love and respect. In a worst-case example, you may have to practice tough love and walk away from bad behavior and help others by modeling the behavior you want to see.

Author Profile

Joan Atuhwera
Joan Atuhwera
Joan Atuhwera is a Business Administration Graduate, a Human Rights activist and writer with over five years’ experience in pursuing justice for others via her keyboard. She can also be reached via email: [email protected] or WhatsApp +256774334595
Latest entries

Author Archives

  • BusinessAugust 23, 2023160 Ugandans Equipped with Practical Skills in Oil Pipe Line, Refinery Construction as CNOOC, UPIK, Sunmaker Implement National Content Policy
  • EntertainmentAugust 16, 2023Finding Peace and Healing: Sleeping with your biggest enemy sounds illogical! It is hard to safely put up with the real source of the trauma but…
  • EducationJuly 2, 2023On Women Baby-Trapping Innocent Men: Don’t get your sperm near a woman you don’t want to have a baby with. She can’t get pregnant without your little swimmers
  • EntertainmentJune 3, 2023Feminists Vs Submission: Today, for women to be guided on their `place` via the hierarchy scale connexion to men, is not only outdated, but unnecessary
Tags: The WriterThursday with Joan Bonny
SendShare435Tweet272
  • Manukau with her child

    Business Woman and Royalist Nabukalu Hamidah Still Missing

    17087 shares
    Share 37214 Tweet 23259
  • Equity Bank Becomes a Den of Thieves: Top Veteran Journalist Aldrine Nsubuga Arise to Save a customer`s UGX47M

    24612 shares
    Share 9845 Tweet 6153
  • The Mohan Family Tales: Tycoon Mohan Kiwanuka finally speaks out about his family empire turbulence, writes to Son

    16919 shares
    Share 6768 Tweet 4230
  • In Kaka’s Horror Grip: Exclusive details why President Museveni invited Ronald Mayinja to perform for him at Kololo

    10760 shares
    Share 4304 Tweet 2690
  • Kabaka Laughs off his ‘Death’: Family tells Investigator the Son of Muteesa is in good health and relaxing in Kenya

    10410 shares
    Share 4164 Tweet 2603
  • Terms of Use
  • Privacy & Policy
  • Contact

© 2022 The Investigator News - More Than Just News Without Fear or Favour.

No Result
View All Result

© 2022 The Investigator News - More Than Just News Without Fear or Favour.

Welcome Back!

Login to your account below

Forgotten Password?

Retrieve your password

Please enter your username or email address to reset your password.

Log In